Wednesday, December 31, 2008

New Year's eve

So I am currently in CT, at my Aunt Lori's house. We set out yesterday morning from Mass. and arrived in West Haven just after 12 o'clock. We made a stop at Aunt Kathy's, which was nice. Uncle Billy was nowhere to be found. We didn't stick around too long, as Grandma wanted to hit the Christmas Tree Shop on the way to Trumbull. She absolutely loves to shop! Once we got here, we were pleased to find a lobster dinner waiting for us. This was very tasty. I gave out Christmas gifts, which went over well, my aunt and uncle especially liked the candy box with a basset hound on it (sporting a sparkly Santa hat). They have two bassets here, Chelsea and Mona. Chelsea is older, but the smaller and smarter of the two. She doesn't seem much like a basset at all really. Mona is a very big dog, though she doesn't seem too fat. Both dogs are pretty calm and friendly.

Today we are supposed to go to Danbury to have New Years with Uncle Bob and Debbie. However, it's snowing here; there is supposed to be four to six inches by day's end. Figures, now there's snow when we want to get somewhere. Bob made us hotel reservations, I hope we don't have to cancel. I forgot how dramatic they get about snow here. Everyone acts as though it is the end of all creation when it snows. Hopefully we'll be able to get where we need to go.

that's all for now, more later.

Note to Self: Forgive typos. ZoomText isn't working so I can't see what I'm doing.
Need to get this computer worked out.

Monday, December 29, 2008

Well, I am all packed up and ready for the travels tomorrow. Mom Grandma and I went shopping today, got a few nice pairs of jeans and a warm sweater. Hopefully the trip will go well.

Mom is really going to miss me. She is working tomorrow so I will be getting up early to see her. I am going to miss her too. Things are tough in this family right now, and while I can understand this, its hard to see her sad like this. I want so much to be able to take her away from here for awhile. Unfotunately things don't always work out. She will be home for New Years, and dad will surely be sleeping. She said she is doing okay but okay shouldn't be good enough. I wish he'd wake up, and be more like himself. In recent years, my father has made a dramatic turn. He is so cold, and opresses whoever he can with his misery. She deserves better. I wish I could take her with me, on this trip, to Boston once I graduate. She tells me to never settle, reach for the stars, go out and live life to the fullest and have a blast. I just know she wants it to. If only I could make this happen for her. She means the world to me, she's been there more than anyone else, and I love her to pieces.

I don't want to look back on this time soneday and wish things had been different. I want to cherish every moment I have with those who are precious to me.

This is my goal for the new year...appreciate every moment and make it count.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Saturday - a day of surprises

I woke up this morning to Nicole still not feeling well. She didn't want to go home, but we had to get the house ready for Grandma to come Sunday morning so she knew she had to. The rest of us had to load the car while she pouted. She didn't forget to remind me that I promised to give her my Japanese maple tree though...we were honestly relieved when she left. The tension left with her.

At two we headed out to pick up baked goods for the church's bread ministry. we picked up the goods, brought them to the church, and made a few other deliveries to people we know who aren't working.

Once we got home we were both pretty beat. My eyes were burning, so I was planning on laying down for a bit before cleaning and wrapping gifts. Mom took a drive to Tedeschi's and Dad was about to take some bread to the neighbors' house when the phone rang...it was mom. She called to tell u s that Grandma was at Tedeschi's! We weren't expecting her until the next morning! We scrambled to get dressed and spray Febreeze just as she pulled into the driveway. What a shocker! It was nice to have here come early though; she is calm and quiet and fun to be around. We sat around most of the evening catching up and snacking on holiday treats. We also caught a rescreening of the opening ceremony for the Olympics at Beijing. We'd never seen it in August; it was beautiful. They had a giant LED screen on the floor and thousands of perfomers dressed in illuminated suits. The perfomers ran about the floor, making shapes of birds and streams of light, and a sparkling bird's nest.

Once everyone went to bed I wrapped some gifts for Grandma. Still more to do, including gifts for the CT family.

We also chatted a bit about travel plans next week. It's going to be quite busy, as we're going everywhere, but it will be fun. Here's the plan so far:

Tuesday: Leave Massachusetts. Stop in West Haven CT for a visit with aunt Kathy and uncle Bill. After that, continue on to Trumbull and spend the night with aunt Lori and company. :) I have a cute dog bone shaped christmas tin that I'm filling with goodies for their two dogs, Chelsea and Mona (bassets).

Wednesday: New Year's eve, which we will be spending with uncle Bob and Debbie. There we shall ring in 2009, and I hear they've booked a room for us at the Ethan Allen hotel.

Thursday: After New Years festivities, we shall head out towards Pennsylvania.

Friday-Monday: Time in PA, which shall be spent visiting aunt Marlene and Andy, Tish and company, shopping, and going to a casino. :)

Tuesday: taking Amtrak train back home from the Trenton NJ station. I LOVE train travels!

From there its just half a week until my trip to Smithtown for my new partner! :)

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Friday - Day after Christmas

Mom recieved money to buy sweaters for Christmas, so we got up early and went out, just the two of us. She found two sweaters, and we bought some gifts for aunts and uncles in CT. Apparantly, in addition to my trip to PA, I learned that Grandma and I will be spending a few days in CT for new years, so I wanted to be prepared with gifts for everyone.

After shopping, we had lunch at McDonald's, and then we went to the movies, to see Marley and Me! I was super excited to see this movie, ever since I read about it on John Grogan's website in August.

I have to admit, the movie was pretty good, and accurate to the book. When I first heard that the leading roles were to be played by Owen Wilson and Jennifer Anniston, I was curious to see how they'd do, and it was a success. They were both brilliant. The dogs in the film were adorable, and most of the first half of the film was hilarious. The dog's they used tore up life with such vigor and happiness that I bet John Grogan himself was pleased. His antics reminded me of Franklyn.
The later stages of Marley's life were sad. Since I read the book I knew it was coming, but that didn't stop the tears when he reached the end. The whole theater was crying, you could hear it. I think alot of people didn't expect such a sad end, because the previews make the film look like a cute funny film. Quite a few people with this mindset brought young children to the film, which was definitely a mistake. There should almost be a disclaimer or something. These parents had to convince their sobbing children that it was just a movie, and Marley really lived. The thing that struck me about this, is that it really did happen to this particular dog, and happens all the time. It really captured the loss that a pet owner goes through (mom was in tears, because this is what we went through with Sammie). Parts of the film are cute and wonderful, though it was pretty blunt about the end of the dog's life. It mimics the idea behind the book, that life with a dog is full of ups and downs. There are hard times, but the love of a doggy companion makes it worthwhile. They did end the film pretty quick after Marley dies, perhaps if it included the response Grogan got to sharing his dog's life, it would have been a little brighter. I think they should have ended the film with John starting the book, or something. It would have made the message more obvious to the audience.

Like I said, I think the film was great overall. I wasn't shocked by the ending, but could understand why others would be. For me, the audience reaction is really a testament to how much these furry children can mean to us. A few people remarked while walking out that Marley reminded them of their own dog, and that is the point behind the book and the film. Grogan's message really reaches out to anyone who has ever loved a dog. They're not perfect, but that's just what makes them so unique and important to us. Of course saying goodbye is hard, but they make our lives better by sharing it. I'm very glad I got to see it. I wonder what John Grogan himself thought of it...

It was nice to get out of the house, and away from the tension for a day. Neither one of us wanted to deal with the dramatics that were no doubt taking place at home. Nicole's money ran out and she decided to charge us for the food she cooked for Christmas dinner, which the parents were not happy about. She usually takes whatever she can get out of everyone.
Once we got home, it was pretty much time for mom to head to her Friday night job at the store. I camped out in the livingroom making scrapbook pages and eating a dinner of stuffed mushrooms. Nicole wasn't feeling good, and stayed in the bedroom. A pretty uneventful night, but I think everyone was just exhausted from the week, and ready for things to go back to normal.

Making up for a few crazy days!

Wooo its been a ride these few days! Haven't had time to sign online at all since Christmas Eve. Still need to check my email...that will be a treat.

I'll do my best to make up for lost time here.

Wednesday night:
We finished cooking food and had an elaborate dinner of chicken wings, stuffed bread, sandwiches and so much else. We opened our Christmas Eve gifts from Nicole, her family tradition of "Christmas Jammies." I must say that it's a cute idea and wish we had done it when I was a kid. My jammies had snowmen on a red and white background, with soft red slippers.Everyone wore their jammies to bed.

I heard a lovely story on TV about a "praying Santa" in either North or South Carolina. This man started playing Santa shortly after his father died. The father was big into christmas and always played santa and taught his family the real meaning of Christmas. Once the son began following his father's tradition, he felt the Lord calling him to this Santa ministry. He now sees children every year, and in addition to talking with the childrean about their wishes, he prays with them. He gets a very positive reaction from the children and their parents. I think this story is just wonderful. It really brings Christmas full circle, and connects the Santa tradition to the love and joy Jesus brings.

Thursday - Christmas Day
Today was certainly an interesting Christmas. Woke up to the phone ringing; it was Morgan thanking Mike and I for the gifts we sent. I would have gone back to bed, but a few people were already up and moving. Laura was up, which pretty much meant the day was started. The living room had been "Christmas-ified". Laura was all excited and intrigued. I must admit, it was neat waking up Christmas day with a kid in the house. She is 11 though and while she insisted on leaving cookies and milk out for Santa, was skeptical and asking questions. Dad responded to this beautifully and went on his laptop to pull up that "Yes Virginia, there is a Santa Clause" article. Dad tried to show Laura that the Christmas spirit is a mindset, an expression of love and peace. It was beautiful.

This beauty did not last long however. Nicole meanered out into the kitchen as mom was cooking. She was the last person out of bed, andtends to get a little cranky in the morning. She patted herself on the back as she handed Laura a gift bag with a black scarf she stayed up all night making for her. With Nicole, everything is a competition, and she had to make sure that Laura knew that she was the best gift giver. While Nicole was getting her coffee together, dad suggested that Laura could open her stocking while we were all waking up and making waffles (this in a tradition in our household). Nicole had a fit about this; she wanted to record EVERYTHING, and made her put the stocking away. This did not sit right with dad, and he called her on it...and things escalated, quickly. In seconds, they were both screaming their heads off, Nicole was crying, quite a mess. On Christmas, of all days. I had to retreat to my room to pull myself together to keep from saying anything. It almost ruined Christmas for everyone. Nicole was quite dramatic (she thrives on this kind of attention it seems). After awhile, we managed to get everyone to calm down and get back to normal.

We then gathered into the livingroom, and did gifts. My parents did great with Laura's gift, and everyone seemed happy. The gifts I made went over well; mom loved the cranberry dish, and dad was touched by the electric blanket. During breakfast, Dad read the Christmas story from the bible.

My parents are just wonderful! They gave me some lovely gifts, including the PERFECT gloves for working with a dog harness, some thermals for training in NY, sweaters, and a few DVDs. I really was touched by their thoughfulness.

Laura enjoyed herself. She made out like a bandit and retreated after our pancake breakfast (they were easier than waffles) to the livingroom to play with her goodies. By nightfall, she was bored again, and became quite smug. She and Nicole were pulling a bit of an attitude after I called Laura out on making a rude comment. So things were good for the most part, but I think when it comes down to it, we're trying too hard to make a family out of a group of strangers. Nobody can undo the years of missed opportunities. And people take their holiday traditions very personally; to have a Christmas together, we would have to compromise a bit.

All in all, I enjoyed Christmas with my family. My parents always make things nice and happy around the house, and I love being around mom especially. A few things were less than perfect, but its in the past. This was an important Christmas for me, as I get older Christmas is changing. I am becomeing more and more greatful of the love and joy I share with my family. None of us are perfect, but we share the joy of the season together. We know the true reason for the season, and it keeps our hearts full this time of year.

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Christmas Eve!

Christmas is here, and I am here with my family hanging out! All is good!

As of yesterday my stomach was still a little iffy, but I've decided not to eat until our little party thing tonight. We are making an assortment of tasty treats for a little family party tonight. Nicole wants us to each open one gift tonight. I know why but I've been sworn to secrecy. :)

There was a debate about going out to eat for Christmas but it looks like it's not going to happen. That's the thing about this family, everything changes all the time. Once someone gets an idea in their head, that's all it takes. :)

Kristen has been emailing me the past few days, and she seems to be in good spirits but does not have enough to eat, I am worried about her. Mom and dad want her to contact them but she still hasn't. All we can do is pray that she turns around, there's only so much support one person will accept.

I hope everyone has a great Christmas tomorrow.

Monday, December 22, 2008

The family arrived around one today. Laura pretty much set up her gamecube right away, and has been playing it ever since. I think she is on her fifth game by now?

Nicole made an awesome wreath for the front door out of pinecones. It's really pretty. She also gave me a Christmas gift early, a very pretty green ring white stones around it. So awesome, because I didn't have any rings until now. Very nice.

I got a suprising call today, from Kristen. She asked me to come online, so I did, more from curiosity than anything else. We've been talking for a bit, she's still living with Carlos. Now her mixed up brother Josh is staying with them as well. *Kristen was a childhood friend from a rough family life who ended up living with us for six years. She moved out last year to live in a run down apartment with a guy she had only been dating for three weeks. She seems to be upset today, sorry for all that has happened, She honestly left so suddenly, and with little consideration for the family who put so much love and trust her way that we all just felt kind of hurt afterward. Then she decided not to talk to us all year. I guess now she feels bad. Who would want to live like that is my question. But I did my best to support her and cheer her up, that's all that can be done. She's planning on spending Christmas alone as well, which is very sad. I don't know what to do...

We're making homemade pizzas for dinner tonight, should be fun. I'm still feeling a little off but hopefully it will be better by tomorrow!

More later!

Sunday, December 21, 2008

First day of winter.

Well Friday afternoon and night was crazy. The snow was unbelievable coming down at three to four inches per hour at times. I think we got about a foot altogether. I made sure that the walkweays and driveway was clear by the time mom was to come home, that was quite a job. She definitely appreciated it though.

I woke up early Saturday morning very sick. I caught the awful flu...which has pretty much kept me down ever since. I am just now getting energy enough to stay awake. This is the first time I've been able to sit up long enough to check my email. I hope this ends soon.

Laura and Nicole are coming tomorrow morning, and the holiday festivities will begin. Tonight we are going to a candle lit Christmas church service. Hopefully after that I will be able to do gift wrapping, as I've been too sick to do it as of yet.

Going to go rest now. More later.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Snow!

Well, what a dramatic start to a storm! Within ten minutes from the first flake, snow was flying sideways, and the ground was already white! They certainly kept their word with this one.
Once a little more comes down, I will go out and start clearing things. My father is very picky about snow removal, and since he is sick, I need to make sure I do a devent job. So every inch or so I will clear off the sidewalk. The driveway is another matter however.

I've been trying to figure out how to get a new computer. I called Dell today, and they helped me pick out a good one to meet my needs. Just a desktop, no monitor, but it has a good processor, and alot of memory. Just under 700 dollars, but I don't qualify for financing, so I don't know how that is going to work. We'll see.

Finally on Break!

Well everything is done, and I am finally on break! I got home yesterday afternoon. glad to be done with school for a bit, and away from everything so I can just relax. Molly has been following me all around the house; I think she likes having my undivided attention. And honestly, its nice to be around a dog, really helping me cope with the doglessness.

Last night I spent some time with mom. I made a batch of chocolate chip cookies, and we watched the chipmunks movie, which was not as bad as I would have expected. It was nice to have a night off. :)

Today my dad is sick unfortunately. He's taking it easy, so its pretty much quiet around here. Not for the whole day, as we have some BIG snow coming our way! It is going to start in the early afternoon, and snow heavily (1-2 inches an hour) past midnight! It will be nice to have snow, even nicer not having anywhere to go!

At some point today or tonight, I will wrap gifts. Right now I am just enjoying the relaxation. Until I become a human snow plow that is. :)

More later!

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Dogless...

Doug arrived at 1pm, as promised, and Franklyn was ecstatic to see him again. We came inside, I asked some questions, returned some items to him, he gave a few words of encouragement, and put the leash on her. I'd have to admit, it was kinda hard to see her walk away, as she's been in my life everyday since the summer. He said it's important to let emotions run their course, to prepare for the new dog.

He did hint about that, actually. He said to hang on to my ID card "in case" the dog is black, to use as a back up. He then asked to make sure I had no particular breed in mind. I told him no particular ones, though I have my favorites. When he asked what,I told him yellow labs, and he said that it *may* not be leaning that way. So based on this, I'm wondering if it's a black lab?

All in all, i know i made the right choice, but I grew attached to her, anyone would after speanding so much time with a dog. It's hard right now, but I know it was for the best, and will get easier...

Have to go get my head on straight and take another final.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

A wintry mix overnight.

Just a quick lil' update!

Today I had the final for Multimedia Design. It was really quite ridiculous, and we were done by 8:30. I made plans to pick up the book on Thursday morning, so I'm really quite excited about that. The paper for poetry class is done as well...things are getting done.

I will be on my way home Thursday midday. Dad will be coming here, which will be a bit akward based on teh phone conversation yesterday. Oh well...I just hope he doesn't keep dewlling on things like money and gifts, because I'm pretty sure he's the only one who is worried about it.

Doug called today, and he will be here around 1 tomorrow afternoon for Franklyn. I have tonight and tomorrow AM with her. It almost seems like she knows something up, but that could be because I'm starting to pack a bit myself. I still don't know what it will be like once she leaves, but I just hope the month until class goes smoothly.

That's about it for now...more later

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Just a few more days!

So glad to be done with last week! Quite a bit of work, especially the 12 page paper for Seminar.

Found out a bit of good news though; the third round of group presentations has been Cancelled! The whole class got an A on it, and instead of a rought tough take home final, we go to class, and answer one question, for a pass/fail type thing. This is just great, since that's the day Franklyn will be leaving, and I'd much rather be spending time with her than studying!

I met up with Karen yesterday for crepes and some Christmas shopping, which was fun. I'm jsut about done with Christmas gifts; picked up the last batch of ceramics last night. I just need a few more little things for Laura, and something else for Nicole.

Morgan hasn't gotten her gift in the mail yet, which I am a little worried about. If it isn't there by Monday night, I will definitely be investigating.

I also rearranged the room again. It is much bigger now, and I made room for the new dog's tie down, so when I come back here in Jan, everything will be all set.

That's about all for now. Have more work to do tomorrow for the finals in Tuesday, and Thursday. Just those, a paper, and a website and then we will be HOME FREE!

Monday, December 8, 2008

The weekend, and semester's end CRAZINESS!

Let's see...most of the weekend was spent accross campus, in the glorious Mac Lab, working on my book. I got a call from Doug Saturday, and got a little more info about January. Apparantly there are three other people going to the class for a combo training, so we are essentially going to break off from the rest of the class for the most part, to get as many experiences as possible, including the subway. And if things go according to plans, we may even get our dogs a day early! :)

He said it will be a pretty intense training, as he wants us all to be all set by the time we have to leave. Since there are four of us, he obviously won't be able to get to everyone right after we leave. Some of us will have to wait longer than others, depending on how much help we need. He also said that he knows I was hard on myself in class the first time, with the match issues and all, but he really hopes that I will enjoy it this time around. And I plan to! :)

So today I worked on the book a little more, I have two more pages to import, which I have ready and waitng. This will be done first thing tomorrow. Group comm class was rather annoying today. Apparantly the final is next Wednesday, not Monday, so I called DOug to let him know, since that's when he was coming for Franklyn. The group wasn't being very productive either. "We" (or just a certain one of us) picked the topic for round three: Dress code and uniforms in public school. It's a topic, not a bad one, just not really relevant to college students. This afternoon, I watched a film for seminar class (which still needs to be written about), and did some research for my paper. Still pretty much behind in everything, but it will get there. After the book, the main focus will then turn to the 12 page paper due thursday...which I haven't started yet. Really took on too much this semester.

More later.

Friday, December 5, 2008

The majority of today was spent in the ceramic studio, finishing up my christmas gifts. So, here's what's what in terms of hand made gifts.

Grandma: story inspired candy dish.
Nicole: dragon mug.
Mom: Cranberry butter dish and plate.
Matt: black lab. :)

Dad/Molly: a ceramic doggy dish, which I plan on turning into a "doggy gift basket" for Molly. It shall be filled with milk bones and a toy on top!

I'm giving store bought gifts for Laura, Dad, and friends.

Speaking of Molly, I don't think I ever posted a picture of her here, so here she is:


I really don't have too many nice pictures of her. It's hard to take pictures of her, because she's not one for sitting still! She is a lab boxer cross, the face of a boxer, with the size and shape of a boxer. She's about 20 months old now. We found her on PetFinder.com. She was fostered in a nearby town through "Friends of Homeless Animals," and came from a home filled with Boston Terriers! Too cute! We have a picture of her playing with the family's pet dog, Mac (he is a BIG Boston!):


My father wasn't going to call for her at first, as she was labelled a "special needs" dog. When she was just a two week old pup, animal rescuers somewhere in Arkansas found her abandoned in a cardboard box, with a broken leg (her front left). Months of care and a loving foster family made her turn around. They performed surgery on it a few times, and while she has a limp, and the leg is a little deformed, she has no problem running around the backyard!

Now she is a much loved member of the family. We got her....a year ago tomorrow! She's a great dog. While I am home for Christmas, I should try and get some better pictures of her.


That's all for now. Trying my best to get work done, so things are pretty uneventful for now.

Night!

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Great News!!

Today has been quite a day. The first half of it was kind of chaotic, but it got much better because...

I've been invited to the January class at GDF!!!!!!!

Morgan suggested that I call Doug today, just to check in. When I did, he said he thought there was a dog for me, but had to check with Sebastian. About twenty minutes later, he called me with the great news: "I called to officially invite you to be in the January class." Ooh! So official! is what I said. :) I am so excited. Its just as exciting as the first time. I can't describe how much of a relief this is. I get to start over, and that I have a chance to have a guide dog like everyone else!

Doug mentioned that he would probably call me back tomorrow, or sometime soon, to discuss picking up Franklyn. Sounds like he will be coming quite close to semester break, which is good. And obviously, since Doug is on class in Jan, he will be my instructor, which will be easier, since he taught me the first time. No having to learn a new trainer's style. That way I can really go into this with an open mind, and focus on getting to know and understand my new partner. :)

I will be doing a combination training. I will head to Smithtown on Monday, January 12, and stay until the 23rd. I will then come back here, start Spring semester classes, and two weeks later Doug will come, and we will do training here for a few days.

In the meantime, once finals end, I get to go home, have Christmas with my family, and then I will be taking a trip to Pennsylvania to spend some time with grandma. :) fun stuff.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Quick lil' post.

Things are hectic now, as it is December and projects are coming due, but i just wanted to write quickly to update on things:

I am back at school. Got back here Sunday afternoon. I worked on the info for the presentation for group comm class. We gave that today. It seemed to go well as Queen (she is our monarch...long story) didn't tear us up too badly. There is still one more round to go, and a take home final for that.

Tomorrow is the busy Tuesday! Tonight has been full of crazy design work for my book. It comes due a week from tomorrow. Crazzzzy.

Things to do this week:
1. Continue work on Book for Multimedia Design.
2. Watch film for Seminar by tomorrow afternoon.
3. Pick up Book for seminar paper and begin work on that (paper is due next week).
4. Paper for Recent American Poetry.
5. Three web pages to be completed for Multimedia Design.

Today marks the first week of December, so hopefully Doug will be getting back to me on the possiblility of a combo training in January.

So, that's where it all stands for now. Have to be up early for the 8am class. Goooood stuff. Back to work now!

Friday, November 28, 2008

Quick post on "black Friday"

My day today started off early. Mom ended up getting up for the day at 5:30, and since we had our errands to run....shopping :), I got up, fed and busyed Franklyn, and so forth. We ended up leaving here at 6:45, since we were up, and the stores were already open. We went to quite a few stores, and got some great deals, and I took care of a few people on my list. Even found an excellent hat for me! We also went out for breakfast, which was nice since it was just the two of us. Franklyn came with us, and was good until we'd been out for a few hours. I think she gets resetless after awhile. :)
Once we got back here, things did start to get a little shaky. A few people had hurt feelings, about things of the past, but we put that to rest quickly, and decorated the Christmas tree. It looks great, and we can now put tinsel on it. This was my first go at tinsel on a tree; a little hard to use at first but it looks great now!

Not sure what's up for tomorrow, but we shall see! I'm rather wiped as its been a long day. More tomorrow!

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Thanksgiving, and update from home!

Happy Thanksgiving!

So, the past few days/nights at home have been very busy, but I just HAD to get a post in. :)

Tuesday night:
We arrived home, had a chicken dinner and headed out to Stop and Shop for a few last minute things. Just Mom and I, which was pretty nice, considering we don't get much time together these days. I had to pick up the ingredients for my dishes, which were:
- Broccoli casserole (per request of Mom)
- Garlic dill dip (as tradition)
- Stuffed mushrooms (cause they're yummy)
The stores weren't too bad, though I must say this little town is catching up to technology. The S & S has electric scanner things that you can pick up at the front of the store, and scan your items as you go, get special discount/coupons, and these also make checkout a breeze! This was a fun way to shop.

Wednesday:
I woke up, and soon realized that I forgot my camera at school. :( I made a shake, and played a game of Scrabble with Laura, while Nicole and Dad prepped some side dishes for Thursday's meal. Morgan arrived with little Ms. Charlie in the afternoon. It was great to see Morgan again! Her family is usually pretty desperate to see her, though somehow I managed a visit with her. Charlie and Franklyn ran about the yard, chasing each other and making doggy mischief. At one point, Charlie wanted a toy on top of an old plastic table up against the house, so she JUMPED UP to get it....as in....standing ON the table! It was hilarious. Morgan corrected the situation quickly, and the pups returned to running about. Molly (our pet dog, a lab boxer mix) got in some play as well. After the free run, and some cool down time in the house, we harnessed up the dogs and took a walk. The dogs did well! It was great to spend time with them.

Wednesday night:
After a dinner cooked by my sister, mom and I did a little cooking. She made two apple pies (her specialty) while I prepared my mushroom stuffing and dips. Laura stuck around the kitchen with us. While cooking, I gave Franklyn a bit of freedom, let her off leash in the kitchen, and she did pretty well. She was mostly interested in watching the progression of everything, inbetween spells of playing with all of Molly's toys. After the cooking, and Franklyn's last break, we all pretty much went to bed.

Today:
Thanksgiving! I woke up at about 8, took a shower and had a breakfast shake, before the Macy's day parade. The family decided not to head out to the football game, it was just too cold for all that. :) so we stayed nice and warm and mom made cinnamin buns (my cousin Kristy's famous recipe). Everyone encouraged that I let Franklyn off leash again ( I had her by my side) so I did, and kept an eye on her throughout the morning. Towards noon time, we broke out dip, and I baked the mushrooms, which everyone loved (they're so nice! though they did come out good this time). We also watched the National Dog Show...in between calling family and friends. I love holidays. :)
As we started cooking the main meal Mike arrived. Dinner was around 4, and everyone seemed to enjoy it! Everyone had their "signature" dish they made, which made it fun. This was the first year where everyone really pitched in, and it was nice. Desert was a few hours later, and Mike went home around six. All in all, a nice Thanksgiving.

...and now the Franklyn story of the day...
As I was making the broccoli casserole, Franklyn was laying at my feet chomping away at the Nylabone. Well somehow without me noticing, she got up, and Molly took her place laying in the same spot! The dogs are the same size, so telling them apart can get tricky for me. Mom was buzzing about in and out of our *spare room* off the kitchen. Well....one of these times, Franklyn followed her in there (this room fascinates her, as its where the dog food is kept, among other things), and Mom closed the door after she left, locking her in there. A few minutes later, I reached down to check on who I thought was my guide dog...and realized i'd been fooled!

Me: "Mom, where did Franklyn go?"
Mom: "Isn't she right there with you?"
Me: "No...." As I begin looking around the house, calling her name. After a few minutes I realize the spare room door is closed. "Did anyone go into the spare room?"
Mom: "I did a few minutes ago. Maybe she got in there and.....OH NO!! The PIES!!!!"
Me: "WHAT??? What PIES???"
We rush into the room, and.....sure enough, Franklyn's snout is BURIED right in the middle of an APPLE PIE! She must have found it while exploring the room, it wasn't totally gone, but she had eaten most of the sugary crumb topping off, and had sampled some of the apples underneath.

Now I can't figure this out...Mom took these two freshly baked pies, and placed them in this room to cool. She put them...of ALL places... uncovered, on top of a cooler, at dog nose level, in a house with two young crazy dogs. Granted, as a guide dog, Franklyn should have better manner than Molly, but she doesn't. We have been in this house long enough for her to have good manners, but we already know how that stands.
Needless to say, my family now understands why I do what i do with her. She has to earn her freedom.

Lucky for us, mom baked two apple pies, and Franklyn got ahold of the smaller one. Initially, everyone was a little stunned, but now everyone thinks its funny. I'm worried about how her stomach will react. I've been watching her closely, taking her busy often. This hasn't slowed her down a bit. She is in her crate now, happily snoring away with her head resting on the Nylabone as if it were a pillow. This dog reminds me of Marley!
* and by the way!* the movie is coming to theaters on Christmas Day, and it looks to be a good one, more like the book than I would have expected.

Tomorrow, Mom and I are escaping early to take advantage of sales for Christmas shopping! Not getting up at 4am or anything, but by 8 possibly. Secret operation! No one but her and I are coming. As far as Christmas goes, Dad announced that for the adults, everyone but Laura, we are to limit it to one 20 dollar gift for each perosn. Takes the pressure off, taht way we (he) can just enjoy the day without worrying about money. I'm not worried, honestly, just want to show everyone I care and so forth. Making some gifts at the ceramic place near school! People around here like the handmade, thoughtful sort of gifts, as much as I like creating something that fits each person!

This was a long one...must be getting off to bed though. Early morning!

Monday, November 24, 2008

The Countdown is on!

So in less than 24 hours, I will be at home for five days of relaxation, family, and fun! I am doing laundry now, I have finished my work for seminar tomorrow, and have begun to pack things up for the trip. I bagged up five days of dog food, and discovered that I need to buy more. I bet once I buy some, Doug will call for her.

Morgan's plans to come run Charlie have been pretty much confirmed. She should arrive sometime in teh afternoon. It will be nice to see her! Since she lives in New York now, I jump at any chance I get to see her. And Charlie is such a sweet little girl, quite the little princess.

Morgan and Charlie at home in NY. From the awesome trip in October! Charlie is a Flatcoat cross. :)



I plan on bringing my laptop and camera home, so we will be able to take pictures of the festivities. Mike will be joining us for dinner on Thanksgiving day, as his family can be rather stressful on holidays. This year is going to be great. Nicole and laura have never been with us for Thanksgiving, and with Mike, there will be plenty of people around, which is great! The cooking is balanced too, we are each making our own specialties. I have a feeling there is going to be alot of food, but we're all pitching in.

Sometime during the weekend we are putting up the Christmas tree. It will be fun to do it with Laura there. Putting the tree up the weekend after Thanksgiving is kind of a yearly family tradition. I've always looooved Christmas, and wanted to set up the tree the soonest we could. Mom indulged it once, and it's pretty much been that way ever since. :)

While at home, I should do some work on my book for Multimedia Design during downtime. Wilson seems to have high hopes for mine. I also have to work on finding articles for the group speech Monday. The book project is super exciting though. It will be a portflio of my work (this is a better topic than doing a company profile). This will consist of three sections:

- Written work from English courses.
- Graphic design work from Spaulding (posters cards and press releases).
- Digital Photography.

Hopefully the CS3 will cooperate. I really love being able to use it, much nicer than my old Photoshop 7.0. Ultimately, when I graduate, I'd like to get a newer computer (the laptop and desktop are old and don't run well) and Adobe CS4. Then I would be able to create things like this for virtually anything, it would be great for my planned career in communications/publishing as well. :)

So, that's pretty much where I am at tonight. Time for a bit more packing and bed, busy day tomorrow.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

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So, it has been very cold in this room. There is no thermostat in this room, and when I talked to the building director, he told me the room next door controls my room temp. To make a long story short, it's still cold in here. So I rearranged my room. Got the bed away from the window and heater. Hopefully the heat will circulate better now. :) The setup seemd a little iffy at first, but now tht I've gotten everything put away its not too bad.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

A quick post.

It's been a few days, sooooo...time for an update!

It is still very cold here. I think it stayed below freezing all day. I went accross campus to work ona project, which turned into a marathon of deleting emails and reorganizing files. I need to get more organized. Anyway.....I realized that a good portion of the work can be done on my computer, and should be, so I don't lock up the files from being on the Mac. I can do some of the book pages on my version of Photoshop, and export them to the CS3, yay!

Yesterday I went to the city to see Karen. It was great, she took me to her neighborhood, and we drifted about. I am really impressed with that area, its peftect! So close to the city, yet it seems cute and safe. Everything is so close together too! We went to this crepe and smoothie bar, and lounged about on comfy sofas, munching our crepes and chatting. It was relaxing. While walking about on the street, we encountered a woman with a guide dog. This dog was a "black and tan labrador" she said, it looked very much like a rottweiler. Very cute. Last night Matt came over and we watched "Almost Famous." That was a blast.

So things have been reasonably quiet here lately. I will be leaving school Tuesday evening to spend the Thanksgiving holiday at home with my family. Nicole and Laura are coming for the week, and Mike will be coming for Thanksgiving dinner. The house will be packed, but I think it's going to be great. On Wednesday I am helping get the cooking together, and hopefully Morgan is coming over with Miss Charlie for us to free run the dogs together. Although I do have to study for a presentation the following Monday, the few days at home are going to be nice.

That's it for now, more later.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

The thermometer is reading 23 degrees right now. And THAT IS COLD! Hard to believe it was almost 70 on Saturday! Crazy!

This week has been busy, but productive. This evening I went accross campus to see the movie "The Doe Boy," a Native American film, for my seminar class. This was actually very cool. The writer/director of the film , Randy Redroad, was there, and introduced the film, told stories about production, and answered questions. He was a pretty funny guy, actually. The movie wasn't bad either. It told the story of a young cherokee boy named Hunter. As a child, he and his father never see eye to eye. His father is disappointed in his son, as the boy is hemophiliac (I hope I spelled that right, the bleeding disorder), so he can't do the things regular boys can do since he is so fragile. The father takes Hunter (ironic name) hunting, and he shoots a doe ( a disappointment to him and his father) hence the name. It was a pretty good film, and even more interesting because the director was there, and we got to hear his motive and inspiration, etc. I wonder if I can find a dvd copy of this movie...

Yesterday I had an interview for a Guide Dog. It was interesting, and gave me something to think about. Made me more sure than ever that GDF is the right school for me. Even though this dog didn't work out, I feel that GDF is like a family, and I have faith in them. :) Glad we cleared that up.

Tomorrow I am going to another film presentation, from the same director. This is a short film, and it's right after class, so I will be done early enough to disappear to get a certain Christmas gift taken care of for someone special. :) that will be relaxing too!

Okay, time to get under the electric blanket. The heat is a little odd in this building at the moment, so its CHILLY!

Monday, November 17, 2008

Rough patch.

I hate to post things like this, but I need to get it off my chest, and there is no one who can talk to.

I am really having a hard time with this dog. I know that this isn't going to last, and that HOPEFULLY there is an end in sight, but it's still hard. Doug told me to keep working her, just the simple routine things. However, even that is proving to be difficult. Her pace is all choppy, and not constant, she won't look where she's going, she keeps trying to look at me, and I can't teach her anything. No matter how hard I try, I can't get her to stop jumping on me, and everyone else. She keeps pulling me up and down stairs, even though I've made it a point to wokr on them the way the school taught. She pulls every which way, it's to the point where everywhere I go is a struggle. She never sits still and behaves, unless she's sleeping.

I'm doing my best to remember everything I was told, and to look forward to the next dog, but I'm starting to get overwhelmed. It's starting to make me not want another dog. I don't know why she's like this. Wasn't somebody supposed to teach her not to jump, or beg, or bark and growl? This is a nightmare. I just want it to be over.

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Just a thought...

I don't really know why, but today I've really been looking forward to winter break, and Christmas!




My sister Nicole and neice Laura are coming for Christmas, for the first time ever. It will be nice to have Laura here for Christmas. Then not too long after Christmas, I will be going to Pennsylvania to spend some time with family there.

This has been a crazy semester, and it will be nice to have a little time off :)

Just a few more weeks!

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Adventures in Boston.

I woke up yesterday, still a little sick, but I was determined to get out and have a little fun. So I made plans to meet my friend Mike on the train in the afternoon for a little fun in the city. He was planning to go to Providence, but I can't do that with the dog. I really shouldn't have brought her at all, as my trainer told me to keep things simple while she is still with me. I don't have anyone to watch her at school while I am away, and if she stays at home, I only have an hour or so before I have to turn around and come back. So she and I went to the train to meet Mike. On the way in, we made the split decision to head to the waterfront. We decided going to the Aquarium would be great fun, so we headed there. We didn't stay long, as there was another service dog there, and I didn't want to cause commotion. Franklyn didn't notice any of the fish, though the penguins caught her eye. The seal tank was another story! The seals swim back and forth, and zoom by on lookers. Well, the first two or three seals to swim by definitely caught her off guard! After a few different seals went by, she got used to them, and watched them glide through the water. One even came right up to her! He sat still in the water, almost nose to nose with Franklyn! Other Aquarium guests couldn't believe it. I wish I had brought a camera with me.

After the Aquarium, Mike and I drifted accross the street. We were hungry, and there being a Legal Sea Foods right there, we decided it was time for us to try it and see what all the fuss is about. What a nice place! The prices were about what we expected, and the food was exceptional! We each had a bowl of chower, and a meal. I had almond crusted salmon with mushroom raviolis, tasty. It was all in all very relaxing. The waitress was very interesting, loud and very animated. She was very friendly though and told us stories and brought the dog a bowl of water.

Once the meal was finished we headed out to the train, and made our way to Harvard Square. There wasn't too much time left, but we did go to the BEST candy store, Hidden Sweets. We looked around, I picked out a few things to try, then we headed back to South Station. A rather satisfying trip overall. There were some issues with the dog, but I won't to into details.

Not too long after getting home, Matt showed up, and we watched a movie, and just got silly. We were laughing so hard afterwards walking down the hall that Cathryn thought we were drunk. It was alot of fun.

So now that i had a little fun I have to get some things done today. Have to cleam, do some laundry, and some reading. I want to make sure the room is clean, and Franklyn's appearance and such are in order, because I have a guide dog interview on Tuesday! We'll see what happens there. I also have got to get to Roche Bros. today; need a pack of water, and some soy milk. It's been raining off and on since yesterday morning. Here's hoping that we'll see some snow soon! I love snow!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

What a week...

Can't believe it's Thursday already. I have to Admit I'm thankful though. I've had a nasty bug all week long. I got in to the Dr. yesterday, and he gave me some antibiotics, which is great, as I won't be sick for nine weeks like I was last November! :)

Stayed home overnight last night, which was nice. Dad made a fish dinner; it was so good to just sit at the table and relax. I also got one of those Furminator brushes for the pup. I'll give it a try this afternoon, once I'm feeling a bit better. I figured even with a potential new dog, it would be a good investment. Heard good things about them reducing the tumbleweeds o ffur that adorn the floors.

Had my last advising apointment today! :) Though I'm still not sure about what classes to take. I only need two communication classes. This is a tricky business though...most of the classes that are meant for the comm. majors. I'm missing a few classes that I would need. So we shall see what happens there.

Not feeling well...so I'm going to take a break. More later.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Franklyn...

I've been meaning to write this post for a few days now. Ever since Applying for a guide dog last summer, I'de been waiting with anticipation to be matched with my new partner! I was ecstatic to be placed in the July class. What made it even better is my good friend Morgan was scheduled for the same class!
When I first arrived at GDF I was paired up with a larger dog, another lab golden cross. She was much better matched to me, but had an "old soul" as I liked to call it, as her pace was usually slower than I would have liked. I honestly didn't notice at first, probably because I was new at the whole guide dog thing, and was more focused on doing everything right. My trainer noticed it around the beginning of the second week, and after some persuading, got me to switch to Franklyn. The trainers in class told me that she was immature and needed some work and patience, but she would settle down into a great little worker.
Since July, I've grown quite attached to the pup, but our work together hasn't improved much. There are a handful of problems that show no improvement, despite several meetings with my instructor. Growling, pulling, jumping, and spooking are among the things that appear in every walk together.
So last week, he and I made the decision: we would switch gears, and focus on an application for a new dog. If all goes well, I will be in the January class, to train with a new dog. I have to admit, I am relieved that it's nothing that I'm doing. He thinks it just may be a bad match, or the case of a dog who simply cannot handle the work. I have to admit, it has been hard, especially now, as all my other friends from the July class have put in the request to talk with their puppy walkers. I so looked forward to that, even though that meeting on Celebration Sunday was a bit akward. Now that I look back on it, i think it felt a little odd because I wasn't very sure of the dog I was matched with. It seems like contact with a puppy walker could be a wonderful thing, and I hope that eventually I will have what everyone else in the class ended up with.
In the meantime, I am doing my best to enjoy time with Franklyn while she is still here. I think she's a great dog, and even though things didn't work out with her as my guide, I still grew attached to her. Right now everything is just so up in the air. Doug said that we should know more of what's going to happen by the beginning of December.

The pup in August, Just a few days after arriving home. She's so happy!

In college. She made herself a nest on "her" blanket even after I folded it up under the bed.


Little Miss likes to play in New England leaves!


I know this lifestyle is right for me, and I look forward to finding the right match! Hoefully sooner rather than later. As far as Franklyn, I'm just going to love her as much as I can, keep her happy, and hopefully the trainers at GDF will find the right place for her.

I'll update once I know more.


End of the weekend.

I still can't believe it was in the sixties all weekend! How great!
I didn't do much today, as I'm still trying to lay low and get rid of this cold. The fever is gone, all that's left is the sore throat. I did take a stroll to RadioShack, and get the card reader replaced for my camera. This one is even better; it reads the memory card of my cell phone too! It's been relaxing to stay put for the weekend. I got to chat with a few friends I hadn't heard from in awhile too, which was nice! :)

Just one class tomorrow, and more work for the contextual presentation for my senior seminar. No class Tuesday, Veteran's day. Have to finish a webpage (or three) and brochure for Multimedia Design, and have to finish picking out classes. Not much this week, right? Right?
I have one class picked out, and one other needs to be a communication class. Then two "freebie" classes that don't have to be anything specific. It's great to be done with the requirements for my degree. Davis' class is the last one I really have to push for. I met with her last week and picked a topic for the big paper. Going to write about "Goodbye, Columbus" and "The Gentleman's Agreement." Fun stuff! Acutally it seems to be an interesting paper topic and I'm looking forward to writing it. :)

More later!

Weekend Fun!

So I've seen some examples of this "digital scrapbooking," and I think it's just awesome! So I decided to try my hand at it.

Photobucket

Not sure if the colors are right, but I used one kit on it, so hopefully it isn't too bad. I gotta admit, it's fun, and it keeps my Photoshop skills sharp!

Dreams last night.

I kept dreaming about GDF and going back to class last night. In one dream, I was told that I would recieve either a yellow lab or a golden, both were boys, and the golden's name was Brian. I remember that Jody was there, and Doug. Then, in another dream, I had already been matched witha dog, and it was sitting at my feet calmly, like I'd always seen other dogs do. The dog was either a yellow lab or a golden as he was a caramel color. I remember thinking how lucky I was to finally get a good dog, and how happy I was that I'd made the decision to try a second time.

I think these dreams came from what Karen was saying last night. She had aftercare yesterday, and did a little investigating to see if Doug still had hopes of getting me into the January class, which apparantly he does, though he hasn't called me yet.

I've really been meaning to post a blurb about Franklyn. I should do that today.

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Boston trip yesterday.

So I woke up yesterday with a sore throat. I caught the November bug, eww! It still wasn't going to stop me from getting on the train to Boston though. I had made plans to see Karen, a friend from GDF, and her guide dog. We were in class together when we got the dogs. We met a Park Street, and sat a little while in a nearby Dunkin Donuts, which was nice and relaxing. It's nice to just sit and chat with a friend you don't see much. We chatted about all sorts of things. I'm really glad that I kept in touch with her as we've turned out to be pretty good friends. The pups were sure happy to see each other again. :)

After that, I met up with Mike in South Station, and we proceeded to go to the Christmas Festival being held at Seaport. By this time it was clear that I wasn't feeling good, but the fair is good fun and I wasn't ready to go home. We strolled around the festival for a good while, browsing through handmade Christmas decor, pretty things, and gourmet food. Franklyn was well behaved for the most part, though she started to dance when we approached a table selling handmade gourmet dog treats. She even tried to snatch a puppy pastry off the table! The owners laughed and said that the table tempts many a service dog at shows. I picked out a few, and we moved on. Mike got a jar of marinated Italian peppers, and some jerky. Aside from that we didn't buy anything. I probably would have, but as time progressed I felt worse and soon it was hard to walk, so we sat down and had some chowder. It was relaxing all in all, even though I felt so awful. By the time I got home, my temp was over 102 so I decided to take some tylenol and call it a day.

Today has been uneventful. I stayed in bed all morning, trying to get as much rest as possible to fight off the bug. I'm feeling much better. As for plans tonight, I need to go out and get some water for the wolf, and something for dinner. I'm thinking mushrooms :) More later!

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

The Polls are Closed!

The results are in...Election 2008 is over, and the new President of the United States is...

Barack Obama!

I'm watching the celebration on TV, as the news casters try to put this historic election into words.
The celebration in Chicago is huge. They estimated half a million.
Quite a history-making election.

And in Massachusetts...

The proposal to reduce the income tax failed.
The decriminalization of marajuana passed.
The ban on greyhound racing passed.

A very eventful day.

Election Day!

What a busy day today was! Tuesdays are normally crazy, since I have three classes, one of which is three hours long. My early class had a quiz, that I didn't know about, but I did well. While I was at class, Dad called me with a change in plans. Apparantly Mom has caught a pretty nasty flu, and she doesn't want me catching it, so instead of going home for dinner, I would just head straight to the polls. So after the three hour class, I ran back to the dorm, fed Franklyn, and ran to the train station. There weren't many people at the place once we got there, which was nice as it only took a few minutes.

So the results are flooding in pretty quick now. So far, Obama is leading. The news just announced that Obama won Ohio, which is a crucial state. I will post again once a winner is confirmed.

Lata!

Monday, November 3, 2008

A new beginning...

So here it is, the new "blog." I have to say I'm proud of myself for finally starting it up. I created the account last week, but didn't bother posting until now. So far, this site is pretty impressive. I've seen other blogs on it, which gave me the motivation to start one up.

Starting from scratch is kind of hard. What do I say? An introduction of sorts, describing where I am in life? Just jump right in? I am a college student, in my last year of a five year study in English. I want to get into publishing or editing, once I earn my degree (since I MUST answer the ever popular "what do you plan to do after you graduate" question). I love to travel and explore with friends. The train line runs through my college campus, and I use it often. This summer I was paired up with my first guide dog, Franklyn. I will post more about her later on, as it's been quite a journey. I've been on a diet for a few months now, and have lost quite a bit of weight, though I'm still working on that. :)

It's the first week of November, and it's getting pretty chilly out there! I love the fall, actually. The leaves, the pumpkins, its all great! Accross the street from my dorm, there is a hill, with half a dozen or so trees. The ground is covered with leaves of all different colors, and I love it. Tomorrow is Election day, and after seminar class, I will head home to vote, have a home-cooked dinner, then return back here. Who will be the next president, I wonder. Who am I voting fore? Not telling! :)

This new Blog is exciting!

More details and stories to come!